tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5983340628948433982024-03-28T23:29:53.185-04:00Stretching My WingsHeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.comBlogger324125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-83934858050414842492016-01-20T13:34:00.003-05:002016-01-20T13:34:45.683-05:00Time for an UpdateSo. A year, huh?<br />
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Many good intentions were had. Procrastination happened.<br />
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I've been out so long...is blogger even still a thing? Is anyone still out there? I thought about starting a shiny new blog, here or elsewhere, but...yeah, I'm a bit to lazy for that.<br />
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I've got some things to say. Stuff to share. <br />
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No promises though.HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-89263548556665701492015-01-15T05:04:00.001-05:002015-01-15T05:04:55.521-05:00The Obligitory Christmas Post<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">When everything is “meh,” it’s hard to get excited or involved in anything. I found Christmas seriously, seriously hard this year. Decorating became a chore, baking became overwhelming, shopping? All I can say is thank whatever supreme being there might be for Amazon. The most enjoyment I got out of Christmas ramp-up, and don’t laugh because I am dead serious, was ordering wood grain wrapping paper paper to go with our Christmas tree theme: wood ornaments only. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">We haven’t updated our gaming console since the PS2. Really. We have a first gen Wii, but I don’t considering that as an “us” update. The Wii was a gift from my mom many, many years ago. So our console gaming has been rather limited in the past few years. Don’t get me wrong, I love my PS2 and it will not become part of the Dejunking 2015 project at all. I have very specific, very joyful memories attached to it. Yeah, I’m looking at you Sara. Baulder’s Gate Marathon? SSX Tricky until our fingers cramped? Still play ‘em. Still love ‘em. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">This Christmas Scott and I decided to finally update to a PS4. Cool, right? We completely skipped a generation! The girls were thrilled when they opened it Christmas morning, squeed even, and couldn’t wait to start playing. So as I was making the Christmas Breakfast and getting ready for work (yeah. Work on Christmas. Sucks, but that’s the hospitality industry for you.) Ashleigh started unboxing and setting up the new shiny. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">After a few minutes of ripping plastic, tearing tape, and shredding cardboard, Ashleigh appeared in the doorway, a cord in her hand.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">“Just unplug something else.” We’ve got a dvd player, Wii, and PS2 all hooked up to our TV, surely there is something we can do without.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">“No, Mom,” she wiggled the cord at me, “It won’t plug in. There isn’t a port.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">Frustrated because of the 20 million things I’m trying to get done, I walked into the living room and took the cord from her. “What do you mean?”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">I pulled the cumbersome, heavy tv away from the wall and look at the back. And Friends, wouldn’t you know it, our TV is so old, that it doesn’t have an hdmi port! Seriously? Yup. Our ancient, only got it because it was on sale and they were discontinuing the model, tv can’t handle new technology. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">I’ve mentioned it before <a href="http://heatherl04.blogspot.com/2013/04/i-is-for-itchy-feet.html" target="_blank">here</a>, <a href="http://heatherl04.blogspot.com/2012/10/big-dream-one-rv-life.html" target="_blank">here</a>, and <a href="http://heatherl04.blogspot.com/2011/07/dreaming-big.html" target="_blank">here</a>, my itchy feet syndrome. My inability to be content with the same place for more than a few years. It has hit again. Hard. Especially towards the end of 2014 when I kept looking at 2015 with hope and excitement. 2015 represents a clean slate, a new start, a tangible end to a crappy year and the beginning of a year that isn’t crappy - in fact, 2015 has the potential to be awesome. It is, of course, what we make it, and I am determined! Determined to make 2015 a Great Year!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">Back to my itchy feet. About every three years or so, I get the urge for change. Change of jobs, change of location, change of something. Unfortunately, Scott and I have already made the executive decision that a relocation right now is not feasible. We want to get Cyra through middle and high school without another move. We want to save up money so that in a few years Scott can start his plan to go to brew school. To do that we need to do a few things:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">Well, it all goes back to one of the things I’ve been obsessively googling lately: the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Small_house_movement" target="_blank">Small House Movement</a>. <a href="http://thetinylife.com/" target="_blank">Tiny little portable homes</a>, with <a href="http://smallhousesociety.net/" target="_blank">tiny little footprints</a>, being all handmade, cute, and minimalist. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">But, in all reality, I probably couldn’t go that way, at least with the house size. I like my dvds, crafts, and games way too much. Those three things alone could take up an entire 150 square foot room!! But, I find more and more, as I look around my cluttered home, there is a lot of stuff that I really could do without. I might not be able to reduce enough to live in 150 square feet but I can certainly pare down what I have to live in my 1300 square foot home without feeling claustrophobic. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">Now, by no means am I a hoarder. I’ve seen that. I’ve got a family member who is one. But I do have a tendency to collect a lot of crafting supplies. You can see my craftway <a href="http://heatherl04.blogspot.com/2012/01/clean-this-craft-up.html" target="_blank">here</a>. It takes up my entire entry hall (that we don’t use anyway). But with so many crafts (I really do know how to do pretty much every. Single. Craft.) I get overwhelmed with all the supplies. It is time to pare down. I have roughly 60 pounds of scrapbook paper. Who needs 60 pounds of paper? Not this girl!! Not anymore!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">So, to alleviate my itchy feet and appease my need for Big Change, I’m down sizing my life. I’ve made a list of rooms, closets, and cabinets I want to tackle and each week I’ll put a dent into my life. That being said, I’m not touching the girls or Scott’s stuff. For one, Scott doesn’t actually have that much stuff and what he does have: books and clothes, are already at a minimum. As a child of military parents, he already has a minimalist mind set. As for the girls, I’m hoping that as they see me donate, toss, and yard sale stuff, they’ll get into the dejunking. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">I’ve actually already started. Remember I mentioned my recent weight loss? Well, I’ve donated roughly a third of my clothes and thrown away another quarter. My closet is much more accessible now. And I felt great about getting rid of stuff I never wear! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">Reading has always been my main form of entertainment. I’d much rather pick up a book and escape into a world woven together with words and imagination than passively watch a tv show or movie. Don’t get me wrong, I love tv and movies too, but active entertainment they are not. I can’t get swept up into a tv world like I can a book world. So I was rather disappointed with myself when over the last year, Netflix became my go-to entertainment. But last year I needed to be passive. I hadn’t the energy to do much and getting emotionally involved in a book? Well, that was way too much commitment on my part.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">Throw in my BFF and I’ve got a ready made book club reading challenge. Hey, Sara, shall we post reviews on our respective blogs? I’ve noticed a lack of blogging on your part lately too. Granted you’ve been busy with Baby, so I completely get it. No worries or pressure.</span>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">Even if Sara does not, I’ll post my reviews of what we read. Which should be interesting since the majority of my reviews of things tend to be: “I liked it.” “I hated it.” Or the ever popular, “Meh.” I’ll try to be a bit more descriptive than that. Sara picked the first book: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Gone-Girl-Gillian-Flynn/dp/030758836X" target="_blank"><i>Gone Girl</i></a> by Gillian Flynn which covers the Mystery/Thriller book. Given that I don’t tend to read reviews often, my only real knowledge of Gone Girl is: 1. It’s quite popular, 2. They made a movie, 3. A wife disappeared. </span>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New'; font-size: 12pt;">13. <b>Family Game Night</b>. 2014 ended family game night. 2015 will bring it back. Scott and I both agree that family game night was and is something that we need. We don’t often eat together - our work schedules often run past dinner time so family game night was a way for us to all sit down together. Christmas helped with that as many of the gifts under the tree were table top games. </span></div>
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HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-37361018777465665632014-01-08T06:01:00.001-05:002014-01-08T06:01:22.513-05:00Troublesome Little ElfBy now, everyone is probably sick with all the Elf on the Shelf photos floating around the Internets in December. But I was going through my Christmas photos (finally!) last night and doing my monthly external back-up when I happened to spy this one photo of Rupert's Shenanigans that I absolutely loved. <br />
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Rupert is our Elf on the Shelf brought to Cyra when she was in kindergarten, before the huge Elf on the Shelf bandwagon was formed (OMG please tell me that doesn't make me hipster!). After a pretty rough November in which said kindergartener was misbehaving, Santa brought Rupert to keep an eye on things.<br />
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For the most part, Rupert just moved around, watching...watching...like the burning eye of Sauron. That is until 2012 when Rupert decided to have some "fun" and got into plenty of trouble: TPing the Christmas tree, dying all the milk green, using all of Cyra's bodywash taking a bubblebath. You get the idea. <br />
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This past Christmas was probably the last that Cyra will be a firm believer in the Magic of Christmas. And Rupert, willing shenaniganer that he is, was a willing participant. That is until some of the other toys in the house got tired of his crap...<br />
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"Oh, Rupert," she said softly, "What have you gotten yourself into now?"HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-24921059971594332652014-01-04T22:42:00.001-05:002014-01-04T22:42:58.799-05:00Changes<div style="text-align: justify;">
I'm not burnt out on blogging. Let me just make that clear. It would be great to say amazing things are happening: I won the lotto, I discovered a new element, Scott and I bought an RV and are currently traveling the lower 48, my novel was getting published.</div>
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But none of those dreams have come to pass...yet. </div>
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In all honesty, my job has changed gears and although I am now working a normal 9-5 day by the time I get home, dinner, kids, chores...you know the drill, the last thing I feel like doing is sitting at the computer. When I worked 2nd and 3rd shift, it was easier to define my time. I could work on a blog post in the morning when the girls were at school or in the middle of the night when all was quiet at work and I didn't feel like I was short-shifting my time with the girls. </div>
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Well, no. I do know. We make time for what we prioritize. I get that. And right now, my problem is that this blog, blogging in general, just isn't a priority. I've got other things that I need and want to focus on. </div>
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No, I'm not shutting down. I'm not going anywhere. </div>
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But trying to force myself to commit to a blogging schedule just stresses me out. It stops being fun and entertaining and becomes a chore, just one more thing I need to take care of like the laundry or mowing the lawn. So for the time being, I'll work on posts as and when I can. With no rhyme or reason, I do hope you'll all still check in with me from time to time!</div>
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HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-88753797716731517112013-11-08T16:41:00.000-05:002013-11-08T16:41:58.512-05:00The Piano Guys Made My Daughter Cry and It. Was. Magical.<br />
Shortly after Cyra started taking violin lessons last year (her school offers a Strings Alive program so for a nominal $10 fee she gets weekly lessons and a violin to borrow) she was searching for violin videos on YouTube and she discovered <a href="http://thepianoguys.com/" target="_blank">The Piano Guys</a>. If you have never heard of them, please stop reading right now and go check out a couple of their videos. <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgAlQuqzl8o" target="_blank">This one</a> is Cyra’s favorite or <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LV5_xj_yuhs" target="_blank">this one</a> or maybe <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QgaTQ5-XfMM" target="_blank">this one</a>…heck pretty much any and all of their videos could qualify as her favorite! It just depends on her mood that day. Anyway, go click some links, I’ll be here when you get back. <br />
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Anyway, for months Cyra would watch theses videos daily. She began to talk about learning to play the cello. <br />
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“I bet I could learn cello easily now that I know violin,” she’d tell us. <br />
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She talked about cello so much it broke my heart because at the time I was still unemployed and we couldn’t afford lessons much less a $600+ beginner’s cello. Nonstop all through the winter, through the holidays, and well into spring we heard about cellos and The Piano Guys. <br />
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In early spring, The Piano Guys announced their upcoming US tour and Cyra nearly jumped out of her skin when she saw that they would be playing the Florida Theater in Jacksonville, a mere 40 minutes away. Still unemployed, I told Cyra that we really couldn’t afford the tickets, but really, I knew that I would save every penny I could to get her there even if it meant doing without Internet, power, or skimping on groceries for a few weeks. <br />
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But with gainful employment comes financial wiggle room and after I’d gotten a few paychecks into the bank, I told Scott I was buying tickets. That was in May. Coincidentally, the scheduled stop in Jacksonville fell just a few days before Cyra’s birthday. <br />
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Perfect timing. She’d be thrilled with her birthday gift. <br />
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All that spring and summer Cyra talked about cello lessons. And the more she talked the more Scott and I really started playing with the budget to see if it was possible. I priced cellos online, I looked around town for a music store that offered cello lessons. <br />
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This wasn’t a passing fancy for her. Cello was her dream. <br />
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When school started in August, her music teacher told Cyra that she might not have returning students join the Strings Alive program. Cyra came home devastated. Violin, you see, was her gateway to cello. She knew that if she couldn’t take cello lessons then at least she would still get the practice with a string instrument. <br />
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That same day, I emailed the one store in town that offered cello lessons. A few phone calls later, Cyra had a meeting with the instructor, an older gentleman whose preferred instrument was the cello. He was thrilled that such a young girl would be interested in cello. <br />
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When we went to meet him, he measured her to see what size cello she would need and watching her touch and hold a cello for the first time cinched the deal for me. Her smile just about engulfed her face and she couldn’t stop trembling. <br />
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“If I made a down payment, would you be able to let me make payments?” I asked the instructor softly as I stared at Cyra pulling the bow across the strings. <br />
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“Absolutely,” he said. <br />
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“Done. Let’s do it,” I said. <br />
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Cyra looked up at me, tears welling in her eyes. “Really?” <br />
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I nodded. “For really.” <br />
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I came home with a cello that barely fit in my car, weekly lessons that worked with my work schedule, and a little girl in complete shock.<br />
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<i>(And now I do something that I don't often do: post photos of the girls. But today I feel it is important for the story.) </i><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">First time practicing before lessons had even started. By the end of the first evening home, she had a reasonable sounding Twinkle Twinkle going. All that violin work really helped!</td></tr>
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Let’s return the The Piano Guys.<br />
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Around the end of September, Cyra once again asked me if we could go to the concert. I looked her dead in the eye and I lied to my child. Lied through my teeth knowing that what I was about to tell her would sadden her. <br />
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“I’m so sorry sweetie,” I said softly, “With Ashleigh’s wisdom teeth and buying the cello…we just don’t have the money for it.” <br />
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Her face fell a little, “I understand, Mommy. It’s okay.” <br />
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And not another word was mentioned. Until yesterday. <br />
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Yesterday, the day of the concert, Cyra came home, scuffing her feet, frowning, and irritated. <br />
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“What’s wrong sweetheart?” I asked as she sat on my lap and wrapped her arms around me. <br />
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“I had a rough day, Mom,” she sighed. <br />
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I nodded sympathetically as she told me about her day. “Sounds like you could use something to cheer you up.” <br />
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She nodded. “Maybe a nap too.” <br />
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I laughed, “You’re that tired?” <br />
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Another nod. <br />
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“Well, maybe this will help.” I grabbed the envelope that held the tickets for over 6 months. <br />
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She raised her eyebrow at me. <br />
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“Open it up.” <br />
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She pulled out the printed tickets and scanned over it without really seeing it. <br />
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I pointed to the top, a small gray rectangle with the concert information. "Read in here,” I told her. <br />
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She read. <br />
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She looked at me. <br />
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She read it again. <br />
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“Mommy, I think you better cover your ears because I am about to squee like I have never squeed before.” <br />
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She jumped off my lap, jumped around the living, the walls echoing her squees of joy. <br />
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At the Florida Theater, after buying $70+ of merchandise, including a book of sheet music, Cyra, Ashleigh, and I sat quietly as the house lights fell dark. Cyra took a deep, calming breath as The Piano Guys walked onto the stage. <br />
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It. Was. Magical. <br />
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The first three songs, Cyra cried. Tears of happiness and joy streamed down her face and her quiet snuffles made me wish I had brought some tissues. Ashleigh and I couldn’t stop smiling. <br />
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These guys put on a great show! Aside from the music, which is phenomenal, they were personable, humorous, and humble. Sprinkled throughout the show the guys talked about their background together and the piano player, Jon Schmidt kept telling the audience that Steven Sharpe Nelson was the number one cellist in the world. And while I absolutely loved the show, the best part was watching Cyra’s reactions: amazement, admiration, hero worship. <br />
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Afterward, I told Cyra we could hang out in the lobby to see if they’d come out for autographs. She about fell over. <br />
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We waited in the lobby for a good 45 minutes. After most of the crowd cleared out and there were only about 30 people left in the lobby, the security guys had us line up. <br />
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And then, there they were. Cyra, who had been containing her excitement as best she could earlier, broke into a jittery dance and tears welled up again. As the line moved forward, Ashleigh and I tried to keep her calm. <br />
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“Can’t blame her,” Ashleigh said, “I would totally be fangirling as hard if I was meeting someone I really liked,” <br />
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Then it was her turn. And surprisingly she stayed put together. <br />
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“You’re going to need the table,” she told them as she handed over her items for signing. <br />
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The guys were gracious, polite, and asked her all sorts of questions. <br />
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“Do you play an instrument?” Jon, the piano player, asked. <br />
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“Yes,” she replied, “The cello.” <br />
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“You are my favorite person so far tonight,” Steven, the cellist, replied. Apparently, everyone they had met had claimed the piano as the instrument of choice. “How long have you been playing.” <br />
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“I just started this year,” she paused. “Because of you.” <br />
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“Wow. That’s fantastic!” <br />
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I swear he was flabbergasted. <br />
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“Did you name your cello?” he asked. <br />
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She nodded. <br />
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“Did you name it Steve?” Jon Schmidt asked. <br />
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“No, Agent Romanoff.” <br />
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“Whoa. That’s a serious name.” The guys laughed. <br />
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Cyra nodded. <br />
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“When I grow up,” Cyra said shyly, “I’m going to be right up there with you,” she looked at Steven, “I’ll be the second best cellist.” <br />
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Steven looked down at her with a smile, “No. You be the number one cellist. I’ll be second.” <br />
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Oh. My. Heart. It pretty much exploded. <br />
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Pictures all around and then our turn was over and once again Cyra could not keep the joy contained and she burst into tears again. She was floating as we walked back to the car. <br />
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“Best day?” I asked her. <br />
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“Best. Day. Ever,” she said through her tears.<br />
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HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-16729532153271027202013-11-01T10:12:00.000-04:002013-11-01T10:12:23.892-04:00Committing to Commitment<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">I work better, I’ve found, when I have multiple deadlines looming over my head—even if they are self-imposed deadlines. So, I know I said back in October I was back in the blogging game, but then I fell off the edge of the planet again. Go figure. I blame my <a href="http://luckyredrabbit.com/">BFF Sara</a> for that, although she doesn’t know it (then again, maybe she does, she is scary perceptive like a ninja). Sara is in her third trimester and I have gone crafting crazy trying to get my BIG plans completed before Baby arrives! So October passed in a blur of yarn and fabric and emergency poodle skirts. And I’m still not done!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">So what does that mean for me? Well, November is going to be busy. As always. I don’t even try to pretend to be surprised. In addition to the crafting and <a href="http://nanowrimo.org/">NaNoWriMo</a>, I am going to commit to getting at least two posts a week. They might be short, maybe just be a photo or two. But the more I have to accomplish, the more willing I am to manage my time appropriately and not procrastinate.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS",sans-serif;">And Friends, I am a big procrastinator. If I started a list of all my faults, procrastination would be at the top. I totally blame my family for that one. As the baby of the family, I learned very early on that if I waited long enough, someone else would do my task for me. Heck! My mom and sister still do it! Remember that whole <a href="http://heatherl04.blogspot.com/2012/04/y-is-for-yellow.html">painting my house</a> thing?<br /><br /> (Another fault, since I’m listing them, apparently I don’t like to take responsibility for myself. But I blame my birth order for that.) <br /><br /> But no one is going to craft for me. And no one is going to NaNo for me. And clearly, no one is blogging for me. So I’ve got to pick up the slack. And by pick up the slack, I really mean, actually do the stuff that I want to do: crafting, blogging, writing. <br /><br /> Of course, there is one teensy flaw in my plan. Work. Yup. Me working, as much as I love my job (and a post is coming out soon about that) it really is putting a kink in my whole time management plan. Although to be fair, there are a few things I can do while I am at work that doesn’t interfere with actually working especially during the slow period, but don’t tell anyone I said so!</span>HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-43307557992554810472013-10-05T18:27:00.000-04:002013-10-05T18:27:00.136-04:00Free AdvertisingAshleigh had her first SAT today and as chance would have it we were short on #2 pencils, water bottles, and snacks - all things recommended for students taking the SAT. I don’t recall being told I could bring a snack or drink when I took the SAT but times, they do change. With a grocery store on the way, a quick stop to grab the required items was no problem. <br /><br />Knowing that I was going to spend the morning cleaning, I threw on an old pair of shorts and the first winner’s t-shirt I ever bought from <a href="http://nanowrimo.org/" target="_blank">NaNoWriMo</a>. It’s my favorite simply because it was the first one I was ever qualified to buy. Soft grey cotton, bold orange block lettering, and a squirrel saying “Whoa!” What’s not to love?<br />
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Ashleigh and I were walking down aisle 8 looking for #2 pencils when a man - probably about my age or maybe just a touch older - came striding down the aisle, a basket in his hand. He was a ginger, so of course I noticed him. And he had a beautiful, rugged full beard. But what struck me the most about him was his deliciously bright hot pink shirt, shorts, and socks. He had on black running shoes and a number pinned to his shirt so I can only assume he was doing some sort of run, probably for breast cancer (because that’s all October is about now-a-days). <br /><br />As he approached, he slowed down, hesitated, his stride broke and he looked me up and down. He regained his footing and continued on. Curious, I kept my eye on him because - well, he’s a ginger! And I never get perusals. He got about ten feet beyond me and then turned and looked me up and down. Again! <br /><br />Folks, I was floored. Dumbstruck. Flabbergasted. Getting one glance almost never happens and a second one is unheard of. <br /><br />He walked a few more feet, stopped, turned fully around, and caught my eye.<br /><br />“I love your shirt,” he says. “I’ve thought about giving it a try and just haven’t .”<br /><br />Of course, my shirt, my walking billboard to NaNoWriMo. I laugh. <br /><br />“You should give it a try. It’s a lot of fun.” I tell him. By this time, Ashleigh and I have successfully acquired #2 pencils and were heading back up the aisle towards the guy.<br /><br />We start walking together. <br /><br />“My friend does it and keeps trying to get me to do it too,” he says.<br /><br />“That’s how I got started.” I reply, “You know there’s a small group that tries to meet at Barnes and Noble, usually in the mornings-”<br /><br />“Oh. I teach,” he interrupts.<br /><br />“Well, the time is flexible.” I tell him as his pace quickens. <i>Am I being too outgoing? Too pushy?</i> “The website is <a href="http://nanowrimo.org/">NaNoWriMo.org</a>,” I tell him and slow down a little. <br /><br />He strides on ahead of me. “Thanks, maybe I’ll look into it.”<br /><br />He continues walking. I continue walking. Following right behind him. Crap. He’s going to the same aisle that I need to go down.<br /><br />“Now I feel like I’m stalking you,” I laugh. <br /><br />He turns around and smiles. “No problem.”<br /><br />Is he creeped out? Was that a forced smile? Am I reading too much into it?<br /><br />Social awkwardness at it’s best.<br /><br />He beelined down the personal care aisle and I made for the cheese and dairy aisle. We parted ways, but jeesh, wouldn’t you know it, back at the register, who am I behind?<br /><br />So, I’ll take a second and throw out an apology to the guys over at NaNoWriMo. I tried advertising and recruiting for you. I don’t think it worked. Maybe next time I’ll leave it at, “Gee thanks. You should give it a go,” and walk away. <br /><br />HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-66754168914796083272013-10-02T06:50:00.000-04:002013-10-02T06:50:17.654-04:00The Write Way to NovemberLast year, between a whole bunch of crazy, I decided to forgo my usual November pastime: NaNoWriMo or as I like to call it, No Sleep November. At the time it was the best thing for me to do. Honestly, last year, a month of bizarre writing schedules was just not something I could handle nor commit to. But it was like a punch in the gut when I dropped out. I felt like a tool, disappointed in myself for allowing myself to contrive a nicely wrapped gift package of excuses. <br /><br />I told myself I hadn’t prepped my story enough. Then I decided I hated the story I was telling. Then I spun into a cycle of “who am kidding,” and found myself staring at a blank screen on my netbook and empty lines in my NaNo notebook - I get a new one every year and all those pages made my head spin, my heart pound. Was this real? I asked myself. Am I having an anxiety attack over something that is supposed to be fun?<br /><br />So I stopped. Cold. Dead. In the middle of a sentence, I closed the document, did not save, turned off the computer, and walked away from the table.<br /><br />I was done. <br /><br />I’m not sure what I regret the most: dropping out or trying to start in the first place knowing I wasn’t feeling it.<br /><br />Truth be told, I had actually put NaNo out of my mind until yesterday when I got the first official updates from the NaNo people in my inbox. And I panicked! <br /><br />I’ve got nothing planned! I’ve got too much on my plate! I’m working now - crazy work hours with an even crazier sleep schedule! <br /><br />After my moment of sheer and utter panic, I stopped and shook my head in disbelief. What am I doing, I thought? I’m already making excuses and I‘ve got a month. I’ll never get anything done unless, you know, I actually go and do it. I love NaNo. I love the crazy, the fast-pace, the insane daily word counts, the weaving and crafting of a story (no matter how much I might think it sucks). I love my few hours at Barnes and Noble typing furiously and drinking buckets of coffee. <br /><br />I know that I’ve got a good half dozen story ideas that I can plan out this month and be ready to commit to writing in November. So here I am making a public commitment. Call me out on it if you think I’m slacking. Demand that I post my word count in prominent locations. Throw crazy ideas my way and challenge me to make something out of them. I’m game. HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-16512411247076221752013-10-01T03:59:00.000-04:002013-10-01T03:59:13.511-04:00October Revolution<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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It would be great to say I was so entirely busy with my life
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And that almost comes to the point. In fact, if I’m going
with excuses that one is the only one I would lay claim to. As her interest
developed, I started paying attention to my internet habits and realized how
much time I actually spent online. It isn’t necessarily a bad thing, spending
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HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-51423356611181037302013-05-22T18:39:00.001-04:002013-05-22T18:39:49.899-04:00Burn Barrel RomanceScott is an early-to-bed-early-to-rise person out of
necessity. He has a very physical job and while he isn’t old, he isn’t young
anymore either (neither am I for that matter, being a year older than he is). By
eight o’clock most nights he is in jammies and ready for bed. So when we came
home after <a href="http://heatherl04.blogspot.com/2013/05/frustrated-is-understatement.html" target="_blank">Cyra’s concert</a> last week and Scott put his yard work clothes back on
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“I’m going go burn things and drink a beer…or maybe two. Want to join me?”</div>
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“Sure. Sounds fun.”</div>
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There’s something about sitting in front of a fire with
Scott that makes my insides woozy. Normally when we sit around in front of a
fire it’s when we are off camping and marshmallows are involved. Not romantic,
per se, but nice enough. And making a big fire in the burn barrel, while it
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The moon and stars peeked through a mostly overcast sky and I
dragged our two Adirondack chairs into the yard while Scott began building the
fire. By the time I brought our drinks out – a nice IPA for Scott and a good
cup of Earl Grey for me (ironically although the selling and drinking of beer
is our main source of income, I don’t particularly care for the taste) Scott
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We turned off the flood lights and sat in the glow of the
barrel, quietly sipping our drinks. Cyra, her bundle of nerves exhausted from the
concert, had collapsed into bed soon after we arrived home and Ashleigh was
glued to the internet, giggling over The Meta Picture and fan-girling to manga.
The neighborhood was quiet except for the billions of frogs in the pond out
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I’m not sure how it happened, but somehow Scott and I ended
up having a date night: out of the house, in front of a roaring fire, sharing a
drink, and no kids around? Sounds like a date to me. So what that it was in the
backyard and mosquitoes the size of Cessnas buzzed around us despite the heavy
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And somehow, magically, we ended up breaking one of our
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Our views are so vastly different that we don’t even try to
come to a common ground anymore. We just accept that we will never see eye to
eye on certain things and so those subjects are not permitted. But on this
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I don't know exactly how the subject came up, but it all came down to the way we met. Scott claims fate: some
force led us to make the choices that led us to meet – he draws the line at
calling predestination (even though it certainly sounded like that to me)
claiming that just because we were fated to meet didn’t mean, necessarily, that
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It reminded me of my days back at Flagler when I took a Milton class (you know,
Paradise Lost, that guy). Oh the debates that I demanded we have in class
(remember, Sara?) all the arguments I brought up about free will versus
predestination to the point where the professor had to tell me to give it a
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But I couldn’t. It bugs me even today. If the god you
believe in is all-knowing, all-powerful, and all-loving then you cannot have
free will because he already knows what you are going to do and you can’t
prove an omnipotent being false so therefore you have no choice but to do what
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Back to the story! My argument is that if we were destined
to meet, then all of our choices along the way are trivialized because it
wouldn’t matter what choice we made, we’d still have ended up meeting. Scott argues that my view only works if our meeting is the be all end all of those choices. It got more convoluted as the evening wore on. We teased and laughed, joked and smiled. There may have been some kissing too - but I don't kiss and tell!<br />
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Regardless of the conversation, I am more than happy with the choices that led me to Scott. Whether it was predestination, fate handing us a road map, or just simple coincidence, without Scott I wouldn't have my girls, my BFF Sara, or a million wonderful memories and moments with a man I can't imagine my life without.<br />
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Before I show off my accomplishments for the week, let's talk for a second or two about Pinterest. How many of you have a Pinterest account? I bet it's a bunch. Pinterest is the coolest thing since hot glue. Would it astound you to know that I do not have a Pinterest account? Well I don't because I already spend too much time lurking about on the internet wasting time that I should be spending in productive activity.<br />
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But every once and a while, I'll scroll through the Pinterest front page just taking a gander at what's there. I mean I am a crafter and a would-be chef so I should always look to expand my horizons and talent, right? The only problem is that each time I visit Pinterest I find myself feeling more and more inadequate. Interestingly enough, I am not alone in this feeling. A recent news <a href="http://www.today.com/moms/pinterest-stress-afflicts-nearly-half-moms-survey-says-1C9850275" target="_blank">article </a>talks about how moms are feeling stressed out by the amazing things they see on Pinterest and like me feel bad about how perfect everyone else's life seems.<br />
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So last week I was perusing Pinterest and low and behold I found two recipes that looked really fantastic. The first was for a zesty shrimp and avocado salad and the second for something called "magic cake."<br />
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Now I won't print the recipes here because of copyright and all that but I think this is the <a href="http://www.skinnytaste.com/2011/05/zesty-lime-shrimp-and-avocado-salad.html" target="_blank">original site</a> for the salad. With the salad I was a bit hesitant to try it because it called for a bunch of things that I just don't like all that much like red onion and cilantro. And to be honest, I'm not the biggest fan of avocado but I have had it and enjoyed it in sushi and on a sandwich. But the photo looked so amazing and I really love lime and I'm on a low carb diet (which is working nicely, thank you) and this salad seemed just the thing to change up what I had been eating.<br />
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So I replaced the onion with cucumber and the jalapeno with bell pepper (in the hopes the kids would be more willing to try it) and left out the cilantro. Looks pretty, right?<br />
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I hated it. It made me want to puke. I brought a small one cup serving with me to work the other night and as I ate it, I hated it more and more. I didn't even finish half of it. I'm not sure why. Maybe all of the replacements I made turned it into a disaster, but all of the ingredients separately I like just fine. Together? UGH!<br />
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After that fiasco I was really, really nervous to try the magic cake. Magic cake is all over Pinterest like glitter and there are so many rave reviews about it. What could be the harm here? A cake that magically separates into three different layers as it cooks, sounds pretty neat to me. I got the <a href="http://www.jocooks.com/bakery/cakes/magic-cake/" target="_blank">recipe</a> from <a href="http://www.jocooks.com/" target="_blank">JoCooks</a> but you can Google it and about 14 quadrillion recipes for it will pop up. It was a simple recipe with ingredients that I had - so no special trip to the store on a non-shopping day - and it looked pretty sprinkled with powdered sugar.<br />
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First of all the batter is so thin it might as well be instant pudding. As I was mixing it during the last stage, it started separating in the bowl and there were chunky bits floating around. I had my doubts, let me tell you. But I was making it for my gaming group and only had an hour before they arrived, so I knew it was too late to bail on a new recipe in favor for a more familiar one. <br />
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From this angle it's hard to tell, but it did indeed separate into three layers: a bottom rubbery crust, a middle custardy filling, and top cake-like consistency. Instead of just powdered sugar I opted to dust it with a bit of cocoa powder which actually helped cut down the intense sweetness of it. The guys liked it and honestly, it wasn't a bad cake it just wasn't magical enough for me, it was just kind of...meh. I will say though, that on a second try, after it had sat in the fridge overnight and didn't have anything sprinkled on it, I liked it a bit better. I think it would benefit from a sauce and more vanilla.<br />
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One of the guys suggested a sprinkle of vanilla sugar and I would have to agree that vanilla sugar would make a nice addition to the cake and to my kitchen!<br />
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In fact, I be there's a recipe on Pinterest somewhere for it.HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-20600359469512771862013-05-17T01:05:00.001-04:002013-05-17T01:05:38.185-04:00Frustrated is an Understatement<div style="text-align: justify;">
I wish this was a sexy post. Something sweet about me and Scott. But I'm not talking about that kind of frustration. I'm not even talking about computer frustration (which, on a side note, has all been taken care of at a very minimal cost). So you might be saying to yourself: Crap, she's gonna post a ranty post.</div>
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And you'd be right. I am. I am full of rant. </div>
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Rantful. </div>
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How come that isn't a word yet?</div>
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Cyra, my 10 year old, had an amazing opportunity this year to learn how to play the violin. I'm not sure if I've mentioned it or not, but for a one time ten dollar materials fee, her school provided her with a student violin and weekly lessons. Seriously awesome. So awesome in fact that she not only wants to continue to play, but wants to "upgrade" to the cello, ASAP!</div>
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Last night was her first official concert - although really it wasn't "her" concert, it was the local middle school's spring concert that Cyra and her violin class were invited to perform at. She was excited, nervous, fidgety, and anxious. She did marvelously. </div>
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She is not my rant. </div>
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The violin group was scheduled to play first followed by the beginner band and then the advanced band. The middle school bands were great. I didn't know a single kid on that stage and I was crazy proud of them. To get up in front of your family, friends, and peers and perform is one of the hardest things to do as a kid - I know, I was in choir! Kids know how judgmental people can be. They know that being in the band is often considered geeky and uncool. And they do it anyway because they love it. </div>
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The band is not my rant. They were amazing and it was clear that the band instructor did a fantastic job with these kids.</div>
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My rant? The audience!</div>
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Throughout the entire performance the audience: parents, grandparents, and siblings, were amazingly rude and inconsiderate twats!</div>
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I will never say that another person's parenting style is wrong, but what the Hell is wrong with parents who let their children run up and down the aisle, talk - loudly - though a performance, scream, and play with electronics - in my row alone there were three kids each with an ereader/tablet/smart phone playing games with the flipping sound on!</div>
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The woman in front of me actively encouraged her daughter to talk during the selections, leaning over and talking to her. The mother and grandmother behind me made no effort to keep another little girl in her seat and quiet.</div>
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And Friends, I am not talking toddlers or babies. These children were at least five and older. During the intermission, Ashleigh leaned over to me and whispered, "I am so glad you raised me properly."</div>
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My girls weren't angels. I will never, ever make that claim. But they knew from a very early age my expectations for behavior when we were out. And if they didn't behave? Guess what. We left so as not to disturb those around us. End of story.It only took once or twice for the lesson to sink in and they realized that behaving meant getting to see a movie in the movie theater, getting to go to a concert or a play, getting to go out to dinner. </div>
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But then again, how can you blame the child when the parents were just as bad? Talking, texting, answering their phones, getting up in the middle of a selection and leaving the auditorium, door slamming behind them. </div>
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Remember folks, the kids we were watching at that point we not even mine and I was furious for them. Your child is performing so you'll update your facebook or tweet about it that bloody second? </div>
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Unbelievable. </div>
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Maybe this makes me old. Or old-fashioned. Or anti-technology. Or maybe, like every generation before me, I will find something that bothers me about the new generation and complain about it. </div>
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But here's where I draw my line in the sand:</div>
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Manners Matter. Being polite matters. Engaging with people face to face matters. Giving your full attention to what is before you matters. Teaching our children manners and demanding that they use their manners, that isn't a parenting lifestyle choice. That's just plain common sense.</div>
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<br />HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-72766015487672112352013-05-11T11:56:00.000-04:002013-05-21T09:40:56.038-04:00Plight of the Computerless (UPDATED)Remember that time a few weeks ago when I said I'd keep blogging because I wasn't burnt out or anything like that after the A to Z challenge?<br />
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Yeah. I didn't lie, but all of a sudden I became slightly more computerless than I was before. You know back when I had a computer to use and all. <br />
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Long story short, I finally got around to installing the new cd/dvd drive my sister got me for Christmas (yes, it took me nearly five months to do it. I'm lazy, remember?) and wouldn't you know it, that even though it only took me about ten minutes to install, I apparently screwed up something somewhere, because the second I turned it on, I got the blue screen of death.<br />
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Twice.<br />
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So off to the Computer ER I rushed with my ancient tower. And, well...I confiscated my daughter's laptop in the meantime, but I'm taking this time to go a little unplugged. It's nice. And some projects around the house are actually getting done. Amazing what one can accomplish without the Internet to entertain me! <br />
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Hopefully, the computer techs will be able to fix whatever I screwed up and I'll be up and running again sometime next week. Until then, My Friends, I'll be putzing around the house and garden - have I mentioned my garden yet? No? Well, just wait! <br />
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Cheers!<br />
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<b>UPDATE</b>:<br />
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Seriously, folks, I got my computer back and they techs were all like..."Um it's $40 bucks and we couldn't find anything wrong anywhere. We had it running all day. No blue screen. No weird noises. Nothing." <br />
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So , YAY! Computer! Although they did mention that it was a rather old computer. Old? It's barely five...but I guess in computer years that's about 4,724 years old. Guess that will need to get budgeted in sooner or later. <br />
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<br />HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-42769921083077170702013-05-01T00:45:00.001-04:002013-05-01T00:45:39.273-04:00Plumb Tuckered OutApril, much like November and NaNoWriMo, is tiring. Different reasons for being tiring, but tiring nonetheless. NaNo is a hectic and fast paced but it's a me against me thing. April brings a different level to the writing. It's me writing, but also making the rounds, reading, commenting, responding. More giving of my time to outside influences, maybe.<br />
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And that's a good thing. NaNo is all about removing myself from reality and focusing on my novels. Blogging A to Z is all about making connections. And really, who doesn't like connections. Introverts maybe, but then introverts probably wouldn't be participating in such a challenge. Though I could be wrong. Heck! for all I know I was the only extrovert participating this year. I'm tired but in a good way. I feel accomplished and dedicated. And that's saying a lot right now. So no worries, <a href="http://www.pickleope.com/" target="_blank">Pickleope</a>, I'm still going to be blogging. I miss my "I Made It Mondays" and my "Friday Photos."<br />
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Two things before I go. First, I hit a blog milestone during the A to Z Challenge: 300 posts! Yay! But even more awesome? All my new peeps! I'd like to give a great big welcome to all the newcomers to my blog. You found me through A to Z and stuck around and that's a major ego boost! Glad to have you around for my journey!<br />
<br />HeatherLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05408729050734990343noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-598334062894843398.post-46228116171385044252013-04-30T08:48:00.000-04:002013-04-30T08:48:27.288-04:00Z is for Zooted and Zozzled<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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with alcohol. And yes, only two because that’s all it took for me to learn that
while I could hold my liquor fairly well (as in there was never any puking
afterward and I always remembered everything that happened) I disliked the
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The first time I was inebriated isn’t a fun story – nothing
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I was working at a tourist trap and one of the guys that
worked there invited Scott and me to a housewarming party. I didn’t get off
work until after ten so by the time Scott and I got there, the party was in
full swing. The guy hosting apologized that there wasn’t
much left in way of drinks…unless of course we wanted to do some shots. Of
course I agreed that this would be a great thing to do. Scott, the designated
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What I heard was a challenge. </div>
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We’d only been dating a few months at that point and I was
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Ten to fifteen shots of varying alcohol later – I’ll admit,
I lost count – I felt pretty good. Except for the fact that I hadn’t had dinner
and my stomach was now grumbling everything was peachy. The party kicked into
high gear, but within a few minutes, it became clear that Scott and I only knew a
handful of people and so we decided to book out to the beach. A few others
joined us and with Scott behind the wheel, we backed out of the driveway.</div>
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Now Flagler has a tough policy regarding alcohol and drug
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It was beyond hilarious and amazingly we didn’t get caught
(or people chose to look the other way). Once I got back into my very tilty
dorm room, I went to my wardrobe to get my pajamas on. Did I mention the
tilt-a-whirl way the room was spinning? I required more stability at that point
than my own feet and went to lean up against the closed door of the wardrobe.
Imagine my surprise when I discovered that door that I always kept closed was
wide open! I fell into to wardrobe with a loud crash, upended my laundry basket
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I'm trying to keep my choices for the A to Z words as non-mainstream as possible. My whole plan was to try to renew interest in unused and archaic words so when it came time to pick out a Y word I was kind-of stuck. Many of the slang I found that started with Y is still in use: Yo!, You know?, Yikes!, Yeah, and Yahoo! And, well...those are boring. But I also wanted to be able to relate the word I chose to some story or experience. <br />
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You see way back when I taught, there was a teacher I worked with who would call the kids <b>yokels</b>. I always felt uncomfortable with it. Not because the person said it but because they said it to the students. Now, I'm fairly certain that the kids didn't know the exact meaning, but an insult is an insult and they understood that. <br />
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I've also heard it refer to locals in a college town, like the one I grew up in and the one I live in now, but there the term was a local <b>yokel</b>. <br />
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Although I'm certain that <b>yokel </b>has a place in our vocabulary it is probably the most insulty of the slang words I've picked out and as much as I am a fan for bringing back out of date words, this is one I think I'll pass on.<br />
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<b>Yokel </b>is a noun from the early 1800s which means a clumsy, unsophisticated person from the country.<br />
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Okay, Friends, this is a little bit of a cheat but, there really isn't any slang for X that I felt comfortable using. Most had to do with drugs or sex neither of which I'm going to talk about here.<br />
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So instead let's talk about the use of the letter X as an unknown factor. And by "let's" I mean "Hey! I found this funny video on Ted Talks the other day that explains the whole thing." Of course, it's really no surprise I found this video since I am currently obsessed with watching Ted videos. I must have gone through about a hundred of them in the past two weeks.<br />
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During the summers we'd gather with my grandparents in Maine for a few glorious weeks of fun and freedom playing capture the flag in the street, swimming in the frigid Atlantic, <a href="http://heatherl04.blogspot.com/2012/04/c-is-for-crabbing.html" target="_blank">crabbing</a>, and hunting salamanders in the woods. The best of all times was when my cousins trips coincided with ours. I loved listening to them talk. The dropped Rs, the long drawn out vowels. It was a beautiful thing, perhaps even the start of my love affair with accents (although as I got older I grew more and more fascinated with European accents over American ones). </div>
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I idolized my cousin Mike. Out of all my cousins he was my favorite growing up. He never ignored me, never talked down to me, and he always made time to play with me even though he was six years older. Of course, rosy glasses being what they are, I'm sure my siblings and Mike could list hundreds of times when he joined in teasing me or, you know, <a href="http://heatherl04.blogspot.com/2012/04/t-is-for-three-fingered-willy.html" target="_blank">locking me and his other female cousins in the bunkhouse</a>.</div>
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So we’re getting to the letters that are somewhat limited in slang selections. I feel bad for the last five letters of the alphabet sometimes. You know, they don’t get the the lion’s share of words like S and T. Y gets some vowel love occasionally, but nowhere close to the amount E gets. I scoured through the sites I bookmarked for American slang. Heck! I even looked at British and Australian slang and I was still hard pressed to find words or phrases that I really loved.<br /><br />So once again, I settled. But the words I settled for work for me.<br /><br />I can’t tell you how many times this month I’ve gone through the slang list and found words that I use all the time. Today’s word falls under that coincidence. When I was in high school my mom ran a daycare out of our house. So many little feet pitter-pattering up and down the hall, through the kitchen, around the dining room, back to the kitchen and then with a loud voice (to be heard over the rugrats) my mom would tell them all to, “<b>Vamoose-a-boose</b>!” as she was making their lunches.<br /><br />When my daughter was born, <b>vamoose-a-boose</b> became part of my regular lingo. It’s shortened a bit over the years to just <b>vamoose</b>. More specifically, “Come on, let’s <b>vamoose</b>!” is my regular cry in the morning as I’m trying to get the girls out of the house for school. <br /><br /><b>Vamoose </b>is a verb from the 1830s that means to leave. In an interesting side note, how cool is it that slang from the 1800s is still part of my normal everyday vocabulary? Pretty cool, right?<br /><br />Example: <i>Victoria vented violently to Vincent, “We’ve got to <b>vamoose</b>, Vincent, we’re late for our Voyeurs Anonymous meeting!”</i></div>
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I’ve seen a number of bloggers around the block in the past year post about hated words and the one that comes up the most is, are you ready for this? Panties.<br /><br />What do all these people have against panties, I wonder. Sure, it’s kind of an awkward phrase. It makes some people uncomfortable to think about a woman’s undergarments. Private parts, are well, private and therefore the coverings of said private parts should be private as well. Except, we don’t get a squinchy, uncomfortable, awkward silence when we mention boxers, briefs, or long johns. So what is it about panties?<br /><br />I’m going to go out on a limb here and make some assumptions because I totally don’t feel like doing any research right now and say that the reason we don’t like panties is because women are supposed to be modest.<br /><br />Okay, so guess what happened? In my quest to refuse to research, I had to go and research because I’m geeky and nerdy and slightly OCD about things like that. So, the original use of “panties” comes from 1845, in which is was a derogatory slur against a man as a diminutive form of pants. The first use of “panties“ being used to refer to a woman‘s undergarments comes from 1908. <br /><br />And OMG people! The amount of history regarding underwear out there is astonishing!! I’ll leave it at <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJ6eqMgn5u0" target="_blank">this video</a> and <a href="http://www.randomhistory.com/1-50/028lingerie.html" target="_blank">this article</a> and heck! I’ll even throw in a Wikipedia <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Panties" target="_blank">article</a> too because I don’t think I can handle all the panty talk anymore!<br /><br /><b>Unmentionables </b>is a noun from the 1940s that means women’s underwear.<br /><br />Example: <i>Ursula undulated in her unique unitard. “At least I don’t have any <b>unmentionables </b>ruining the line,” she said.</i></div>
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